Tuesday, July 10, 2012
New Market
I cannot believe that it has been four years since I last took a leap of faith to leave the industry that taught me to love --- love the marketing profession, that is.
I left the Fast Moving Consumer Industry to help out a financial services company in need of building its brand and their image to its customers.
I must say that there is no regret with that decision to date.
Four years has passed, and now, a new beginning beckons.
Now, after more than 12 years of customer marketing in Philippines, an opportunity to help another country in building their brand and their customer focus knocks.
Not deciding yet.
Cest la vie. Lundagin mo baby. Carpe Diem.
Let's see...
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Calm
Even if I took the grateful and optimist stance in my life right now, I cannot deny that it has been a stormy and unstable year for me. I will not write down the reasons here. Pouring it to Paolo in my most recent e-mail is good enough.
I am glad though that with all the struggles that came my way this year, I remained steadfast. In a twisted way, I am also happy that I faced far bigger struggles in the past years that this year did not break me that much.
Call it wisdom or aging but I learned to choose to fight battles which are worth fighting and fought only a few which are not so worth it but did for the heck of it.
2010 is almost done and over with. I cannot wait to declare it EOF!
I am glad though that with all the struggles that came my way this year, I remained steadfast. In a twisted way, I am also happy that I faced far bigger struggles in the past years that this year did not break me that much.
Call it wisdom or aging but I learned to choose to fight battles which are worth fighting and fought only a few which are not so worth it but did for the heck of it.
2010 is almost done and over with. I cannot wait to declare it EOF!
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
30x30
I must admit that I only have about 15 items in my wish list when I hit 30. But somehow, something crept in and made me want to accomplish a lot of milestones in my life before I hit 31. Around summer of this year, I revisited the list and doubled it. Talk about putting a lot of pressure upon oneself!
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My Wish List
1. Own a piece of land.
2. Help my brother finish his college education.
3. Treat nanay for an out-of-the-country vacation.
4. Show more appreciation to tatay.
5. Help my parents manage their finances and plan for retirement.
6. Earn my first 5 million.
7. Earn a six-digit salary per month.
8. Talk about memorial plan to my parents. Ugh.
9. Own a car of my choice.
10. Travel the country from end to end.
11. Conquer most, if not all, Asian countries.
12. Go on an Asian country trip --- lonely planet style.
13. Set foot in Europe.
14. Visit Albert in Japan.
15. Open Mutual Fund Accounts for my wife and myself.
16. Open an online stock trading account for my self.
17. Start an educational fund for my kids.
18. Get a post-graduate scholarship.
19. Try a sales role to enhance my marketing skills.
20. Try scuba diving.
21. Collect at least 20 fun run singlets.
22. Enroll in a cooking class.
23. Reach a head post in the company.
24. Start a blog to enhance my writing skills.
25. Afford three to six months of sabbatical to re-charge.
26. Go on a three to five days of silent retreat.
27. Write my Last Will and Testament.
28. Purchase a memorial lot for my family and myself.
29. Get a good mentor in every company I join.
30. Give back to friends who helped me thru the dark times.
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I am still in the process of writing down my 35x35. I have only written seven. I hope that before summer next year, I will be able to complete it, send it to high heavens and see what happens.
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My Wish List
1. Own a piece of land.
2. Help my brother finish his college education.
3. Treat nanay for an out-of-the-country vacation.
4. Show more appreciation to tatay.
5. Help my parents manage their finances and plan for retirement.
6. Earn my first 5 million.
7. Earn a six-digit salary per month.
8. Talk about memorial plan to my parents. Ugh.
9. Own a car of my choice.
10. Travel the country from end to end.
11. Conquer most, if not all, Asian countries.
12. Go on an Asian country trip --- lonely planet style.
13. Set foot in Europe.
14. Visit Albert in Japan.
15. Open Mutual Fund Accounts for my wife and myself.
16. Open an online stock trading account for my self.
17. Start an educational fund for my kids.
18. Get a post-graduate scholarship.
19. Try a sales role to enhance my marketing skills.
20. Try scuba diving.
21. Collect at least 20 fun run singlets.
22. Enroll in a cooking class.
23. Reach a head post in the company.
24. Start a blog to enhance my writing skills.
25. Afford three to six months of sabbatical to re-charge.
26. Go on a three to five days of silent retreat.
27. Write my Last Will and Testament.
28. Purchase a memorial lot for my family and myself.
29. Get a good mentor in every company I join.
30. Give back to friends who helped me thru the dark times.
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I am still in the process of writing down my 35x35. I have only written seven. I hope that before summer next year, I will be able to complete it, send it to high heavens and see what happens.
25x25
Goosebumps.
I did my spring cleaning last weekend in preparation for the long holiday. While I was looking for pictures to be framed, I came across this file. I cannot remember when I wrote it but I am sure I did not write it in one sitting. It is my wish list as a struggling yuppie!
I am guessing it is item number sixteen that prompted me to write something like this. Whatever the reason may be, I am quite amazed that somehow, the stars aligned for me to accomplish most of it.
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My Wish List:
1. Earn my first million.
2. Climb one of the highest mountains in the country.
3. Find a career that I will enjoy and will not feel like “work.”
4. Start a family early and keep up with my kids in their teen years.
5. Own a home.
6. Drive a car.
7. Support my brother’s high school education.
8. Visit at least ten beaches in the country.
9. Help send a scholar to Ateneo as my way of paying forward.
10. Reach a manager position.
11. Set foot in another Asian country.
12. Buy my first life insurance.
13. Earn at least P50,000 per month.
14. Do not get into debts more than P20,000 anymore.
15. Visit Palawan --- lonely planet style!
16. Adopt a 5-year marketing financial plan in my life.
17. Invest on a decent backpacking gear and set.
18. Spend two more years teaching students from public school to complete 10 years of apostolate.
19. Be sought after by companies and headhunters.
20. Have a decent wedding when I marry.
21. Extend support to my parents.
22. Run a half marathon.
23. Re-read the Bible, not for Theology class this time!
24. Read one book a month.
25. Further strengthen backbone.
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Maybe it is the ripe time to post my other list...
I did my spring cleaning last weekend in preparation for the long holiday. While I was looking for pictures to be framed, I came across this file. I cannot remember when I wrote it but I am sure I did not write it in one sitting. It is my wish list as a struggling yuppie!
I am guessing it is item number sixteen that prompted me to write something like this. Whatever the reason may be, I am quite amazed that somehow, the stars aligned for me to accomplish most of it.
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My Wish List:
1. Earn my first million.
2. Climb one of the highest mountains in the country.
3. Find a career that I will enjoy and will not feel like “work.”
4. Start a family early and keep up with my kids in their teen years.
5. Own a home.
6. Drive a car.
7. Support my brother’s high school education.
8. Visit at least ten beaches in the country.
9. Help send a scholar to Ateneo as my way of paying forward.
10. Reach a manager position.
11. Set foot in another Asian country.
12. Buy my first life insurance.
13. Earn at least P50,000 per month.
14. Do not get into debts more than P20,000 anymore.
15. Visit Palawan --- lonely planet style!
16. Adopt a 5-year marketing financial plan in my life.
17. Invest on a decent backpacking gear and set.
18. Spend two more years teaching students from public school to complete 10 years of apostolate.
19. Be sought after by companies and headhunters.
20. Have a decent wedding when I marry.
21. Extend support to my parents.
22. Run a half marathon.
23. Re-read the Bible, not for Theology class this time!
24. Read one book a month.
25. Further strengthen backbone.
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Maybe it is the ripe time to post my other list...
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Luck
I am not great. I cannot even say I am good. But with all the great things that came my way, I would say I must have done something right. Let me take that back. I would claim I must have done some things just right.
When I looked back at the past three decades of my life, I got excited with the idea of counting all the feathers on my cap. If I write the great things I accomplished, gained, and conquered, for sure I will beam with pride. But I stopped. It does not feel quite right.
I am not great. I cannot even say I am good. With the people that surround me, I will admit I was neither the best nor the exception. I am probably in the middle of those in the middle. But what the heck? With all the great things that happened to me, I tell myself I must have done some things just right that opened the door to a load of luck.
1. I was born in a middle class family studying in a community school. But luck must be on my side for getting a scholarship in a high school my parents never imagined they could send me to, not even set foot on.
2. While in that exclusive high school where expensive is normal, my family experienced the worst days in our financial life. I look back with awe for friends who helped me survive, but need not to.
3. When I was about to enter the university, I made a last minute whim to choose another. It must be another strike of luck because it is where I found most of my friends-for-life.
4. When I was searching for a job, I got seven offers from banks, pharmaceutical and FMCG firms. But I decided to wait for the eighth. Man, am I in luck because the eighth was worth the wait.
5. Just when every thing was going oh-so-smoothly with my first job, I had an event in my life that compelled me look out. Is it luck or what because there is this company who probably got a copy of my “wish list” and offered me everything in it.
6. While in transition from my first job and second job, I fell in love with someone. My first love. Now my wife. My "enough."
7. My lady luck need rest somehow. I joined my third company probably while she was taking a nap. The minute she woke up, I gained the guts to cut the losses and leave while I my sanity is still intact.
8. Rest, by far, is one of the biggest luck I got. When not all from the working class can afford it, I have enough to go on sabbatical for a couple of months --- to collect the pieces, heal and be well.
9. While in sabbatical, I patiently waited for the stars to align. I do not want another mishap, not soon at the very least. Out of nowhere, an unusual opportunity came my way. With nothing with me but faith, I surrendered what-may-be to luck. To date, I have not regretted it.
10. I must have hit One Up. My life got brighter and wider as I gained more friends-for-life while in my current company. I also learned to take it easy (vs. joining the rat race) without being lazy.
I am not great. I would not dare say I am good. But what I learned in the last three decades of my life is that I do not have to be the best or the exception. There is just this certain level of hard work, sensitivity and sensibility needed to allow luck to enter my life.
Now I beam with pride to see all these "lucky feathers" on my cap. And it feels just right.
As I enter into a new decade of my life, I pray lady luck will still be on my side for doing things just right.
When I looked back at the past three decades of my life, I got excited with the idea of counting all the feathers on my cap. If I write the great things I accomplished, gained, and conquered, for sure I will beam with pride. But I stopped. It does not feel quite right.
I am not great. I cannot even say I am good. With the people that surround me, I will admit I was neither the best nor the exception. I am probably in the middle of those in the middle. But what the heck? With all the great things that happened to me, I tell myself I must have done some things just right that opened the door to a load of luck.
1. I was born in a middle class family studying in a community school. But luck must be on my side for getting a scholarship in a high school my parents never imagined they could send me to, not even set foot on.
2. While in that exclusive high school where expensive is normal, my family experienced the worst days in our financial life. I look back with awe for friends who helped me survive, but need not to.
3. When I was about to enter the university, I made a last minute whim to choose another. It must be another strike of luck because it is where I found most of my friends-for-life.
4. When I was searching for a job, I got seven offers from banks, pharmaceutical and FMCG firms. But I decided to wait for the eighth. Man, am I in luck because the eighth was worth the wait.
5. Just when every thing was going oh-so-smoothly with my first job, I had an event in my life that compelled me look out. Is it luck or what because there is this company who probably got a copy of my “wish list” and offered me everything in it.
6. While in transition from my first job and second job, I fell in love with someone. My first love. Now my wife. My "enough."
7. My lady luck need rest somehow. I joined my third company probably while she was taking a nap. The minute she woke up, I gained the guts to cut the losses and leave while I my sanity is still intact.
8. Rest, by far, is one of the biggest luck I got. When not all from the working class can afford it, I have enough to go on sabbatical for a couple of months --- to collect the pieces, heal and be well.
9. While in sabbatical, I patiently waited for the stars to align. I do not want another mishap, not soon at the very least. Out of nowhere, an unusual opportunity came my way. With nothing with me but faith, I surrendered what-may-be to luck. To date, I have not regretted it.
10. I must have hit One Up. My life got brighter and wider as I gained more friends-for-life while in my current company. I also learned to take it easy (vs. joining the rat race) without being lazy.
I am not great. I would not dare say I am good. But what I learned in the last three decades of my life is that I do not have to be the best or the exception. There is just this certain level of hard work, sensitivity and sensibility needed to allow luck to enter my life.
Now I beam with pride to see all these "lucky feathers" on my cap. And it feels just right.
As I enter into a new decade of my life, I pray lady luck will still be on my side for doing things just right.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
My Satellite
02 July 2010
Dear Jeio,
The weather is becoming more unpredictable these days. Preparing only a set of clothes for next day's work is not wise anymore. Me and your mom would need to be ready if tomorrow brings us dry, humid or rainy day. For our weekends and holidays, we also plan weather-proof activities to ensure we have family bonding time. As you know, we both work full-time and it is only on these days that we can spend more quality time with you.
Me and your mom are preparing for your future to the best of our abilities. We toil and lose countless sleeps to build a stable life --- while we still can, while you are still young, while you need your toys and drawing materials more than you "need" us.
However, just like the weather these days, I guess we need to prepare more for whatever comes our way tomorrow.
You know, me and your mom had a serious talk last night. She is beginning to prepare for the possibility of resigning earlier than expected. Admittedly, we thought she can still work for two more years or so to help me build a stable life for our family. But with you growing up so fast and the silent demands for a more visible parent cotinuously mounting, we agreed that one of us has to do it. We are bothered now and will be further haunted if we heed the tell-tale signs of our shortcomings as parents.
We love you so much, son. We are truly trying our best to be the best parents we can be TO YOU. But we are also frail and uninformed at times.
As your father, I am praying that you will grow up to be a good son and citizen of the world. I am also hoping that when your mom decides to be a full-pledged homemaker, you will appreciate her sacrifices and her true worth as much as I do. She is leaving a great company and a good post. She is giving up a fulfilling career and a promising profession. It takes so much love and strength to do this.
I love you and I am proud to be your father. You have this unique gift of understanding people's feelings and possess a blend of creativity which awes us always. Lucky are those who go beyond your quirkiness and appreciate your gifts like I D0.
Just like this weather, I know you will change. It may be tomorrow or a bit longer than that. But you will change. We as your parents are preparing for all these to the best of our knowlegde and abilities.
God bless you Jeio. May you weather the changes life will bring you...
Dad
Dear Jeio,
The weather is becoming more unpredictable these days. Preparing only a set of clothes for next day's work is not wise anymore. Me and your mom would need to be ready if tomorrow brings us dry, humid or rainy day. For our weekends and holidays, we also plan weather-proof activities to ensure we have family bonding time. As you know, we both work full-time and it is only on these days that we can spend more quality time with you.
Me and your mom are preparing for your future to the best of our abilities. We toil and lose countless sleeps to build a stable life --- while we still can, while you are still young, while you need your toys and drawing materials more than you "need" us.
However, just like the weather these days, I guess we need to prepare more for whatever comes our way tomorrow.
You know, me and your mom had a serious talk last night. She is beginning to prepare for the possibility of resigning earlier than expected. Admittedly, we thought she can still work for two more years or so to help me build a stable life for our family. But with you growing up so fast and the silent demands for a more visible parent cotinuously mounting, we agreed that one of us has to do it. We are bothered now and will be further haunted if we heed the tell-tale signs of our shortcomings as parents.
We love you so much, son. We are truly trying our best to be the best parents we can be TO YOU. But we are also frail and uninformed at times.
As your father, I am praying that you will grow up to be a good son and citizen of the world. I am also hoping that when your mom decides to be a full-pledged homemaker, you will appreciate her sacrifices and her true worth as much as I do. She is leaving a great company and a good post. She is giving up a fulfilling career and a promising profession. It takes so much love and strength to do this.
I love you and I am proud to be your father. You have this unique gift of understanding people's feelings and possess a blend of creativity which awes us always. Lucky are those who go beyond your quirkiness and appreciate your gifts like I D0.
Just like this weather, I know you will change. It may be tomorrow or a bit longer than that. But you will change. We as your parents are preparing for all these to the best of our knowlegde and abilities.
God bless you Jeio. May you weather the changes life will bring you...
Dad
Muse
It's been more than six months that I struggle to get my groove back into blogging. I've ran out of angst (at least those I cannot manage) to compel me to write again. Even ideas that catch my fancy no longer make it to my blog but only with FB.
Alas, I have found a new muse - an inspiration that will inspire me to blog for the next year or so...
Alas, I have found a new muse - an inspiration that will inspire me to blog for the next year or so...
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Time
In a couple of weeks, I would turn a year and a half old in the financial services industry. I awed my self for "turning my back" from the marketing-centric FMCG industry where I spent eight strong years of my professional life, taking a great leap by joining Sun Life Financial. With only my faith and spunk in tow, I leaped without knowing if it will be right for me --- if it will bring as much growth and fulfillment as the industry I left behind. That is water under the bridge now.
What currently awes me are the big and small things I was able to learn and unlearn, conquer and let go, build and re-build, with this great leap. In a matter of a year and half:
1. I learned more about business and finances. I do not skip the business and economic sections of the broadsheets anymore.
2. I was able to review my financial situation and take charge now of managing it armed with more confidence in my decisions.
3. I appreciate the value of insurance and sound investments.
4. I realized that my first career need not be my last.
5. The discipline and competencies I learned from FMCG still holds water in the industry SLF belongs. If I keep these competencies, it can actually be a compelling differentiator with my colleagues.
6. I learned that building a career is not synonymous to "a rat race".
7. It hit me hard that some aspects of my life has been stumped with my devotion to my career. It is about time these get the much needed attention.
8. I finally embraced the idea that fulfillment and growth does not depend on the company but on myself.
9. I realized that there are other options to provide for the family than slave over an eight to eight job.
10. I finally found the time to show gratitude to my family and friends who have been my source of support and inspiration in my life.
This set of learnings are very timely because a few weeks ago, I entered a new decade in my life. Yes I am 30 now. Needless to say, I need such wisdom and resolve to arm me with the experiences and challenges this new chapter of my life will bring. My 20s was a roller coaster ride. I will be a fool to expect anything less in my 30s...
What currently awes me are the big and small things I was able to learn and unlearn, conquer and let go, build and re-build, with this great leap. In a matter of a year and half:
1. I learned more about business and finances. I do not skip the business and economic sections of the broadsheets anymore.
2. I was able to review my financial situation and take charge now of managing it armed with more confidence in my decisions.
3. I appreciate the value of insurance and sound investments.
4. I realized that my first career need not be my last.
5. The discipline and competencies I learned from FMCG still holds water in the industry SLF belongs. If I keep these competencies, it can actually be a compelling differentiator with my colleagues.
6. I learned that building a career is not synonymous to "a rat race".
7. It hit me hard that some aspects of my life has been stumped with my devotion to my career. It is about time these get the much needed attention.
8. I finally embraced the idea that fulfillment and growth does not depend on the company but on myself.
9. I realized that there are other options to provide for the family than slave over an eight to eight job.
10. I finally found the time to show gratitude to my family and friends who have been my source of support and inspiration in my life.
This set of learnings are very timely because a few weeks ago, I entered a new decade in my life. Yes I am 30 now. Needless to say, I need such wisdom and resolve to arm me with the experiences and challenges this new chapter of my life will bring. My 20s was a roller coaster ride. I will be a fool to expect anything less in my 30s...
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Show-stoppers
As I reflect about my life and where I am right now, I realized that with the daily grind to work, work, work, to go for "it," to make people and projects move, to make things happen, I ironically realized how I value those who make me... STOP.
Thank you to my wife, family, select friends and colleagues for being my show-stoppers. Thank you for giving me the gift of introspection, the grace of wisdom, the value of listening to someone else's thoughts, and the privilege to be shared with wisdom that just make me sit down and stop.
As this is the season for reflection and recollection, I take this opportunity to express my gratitude and let you know of your value to me.
Have a meaningful holy week ahead!
Thank you to my wife, family, select friends and colleagues for being my show-stoppers. Thank you for giving me the gift of introspection, the grace of wisdom, the value of listening to someone else's thoughts, and the privilege to be shared with wisdom that just make me sit down and stop.
As this is the season for reflection and recollection, I take this opportunity to express my gratitude and let you know of your value to me.
Have a meaningful holy week ahead!
Monday, March 30, 2009
Me
I just had my long overdue alone time. It's been ages since I last detached myself from the world, free from phone calls, work and errands. I remember, I used to do this a lot in the university when everything seems to fall apart. I also remember the times when I would pack up and decide to go out of town or climb a mountain or take a public transport without a clue where I'm headed. I even spend a day in a Jesuit cemetery just to get my fix of that moment when I can be with me and myself.
It is quite different now. It does not feel right. I have a wife and kids whom I cannot cut-off from, pull the communication plug that binds me with them just like that. The moment is also different now. I used to bask in the comfort of peace and quiet that my alone time brings me. Now it seems uncomfortable and deafening. I used to be a good companion to myself. Now there seems to be a bit tension. Or is it lack of familiarity?
I thought that with my alone time, I will find refuge from the hurly burly life. Now I am not sure. Where can I find peace and quiet? Now I do not know...
It is quite different now. It does not feel right. I have a wife and kids whom I cannot cut-off from, pull the communication plug that binds me with them just like that. The moment is also different now. I used to bask in the comfort of peace and quiet that my alone time brings me. Now it seems uncomfortable and deafening. I used to be a good companion to myself. Now there seems to be a bit tension. Or is it lack of familiarity?
I thought that with my alone time, I will find refuge from the hurly burly life. Now I am not sure. Where can I find peace and quiet? Now I do not know...
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Measures
In light of the great global and local financial crisis which they say will go on at least until the end of 2009, I thought of responding in my own little way by writing down a short and simple financial resolution to guide me in my spending and help me become more prudent on my finances:
Cost Cutting Measures Computation Annual Savings
1. Clean and wash the car myself
---> Ps100/wk x 52 wks = Ps 5,200/yr
2. Set weekly budget to Ps2,500 from P3,000
---> Ps500/wk x 52 wks = Ps26,000/yr
3. Bring packed lunch to the office 2x/wk
---> Ps250/wk x 52 wks = Ps13,000/yr
4. Get to office early and avail of free parking 2x/wk
---> Ps270/wk x 52 wks = Ps14,040/yr
5. Remove junk snacks in my list 2x/wk
---> Ps200/wk x 52 wks = Ps 10,400/yr
Total Savings --> Ps68,280/yr!
The end result of this simple resolution is quite startling. I didn’t realize with a little cut on my spending here and there, which honestly won’t hurt much, the impact is quite significant. With this amount, I can already avail of some VUL products or MF products and make a good investment out of it. Now that makes me more determined to keep this resolution!
Cost Cutting Measures Computation Annual Savings
1. Clean and wash the car myself
---> Ps100/wk x 52 wks = Ps 5,200/yr
2. Set weekly budget to Ps2,500 from P3,000
---> Ps500/wk x 52 wks = Ps26,000/yr
3. Bring packed lunch to the office 2x/wk
---> Ps250/wk x 52 wks = Ps13,000/yr
4. Get to office early and avail of free parking 2x/wk
---> Ps270/wk x 52 wks = Ps14,040/yr
5. Remove junk snacks in my list 2x/wk
---> Ps200/wk x 52 wks = Ps 10,400/yr
Total Savings --> Ps68,280/yr!
The end result of this simple resolution is quite startling. I didn’t realize with a little cut on my spending here and there, which honestly won’t hurt much, the impact is quite significant. With this amount, I can already avail of some VUL products or MF products and make a good investment out of it. Now that makes me more determined to keep this resolution!
Friday, January 2, 2009
Re-start
"Review. Renew. Re-do. Relive. Relieve. Retrieve. Re-write. Re-start. Hoping this time, I will do it right..."
Monday, December 29, 2008
Moments
At the start of the year, I made a silent vow to be more involved with my family. So in almost all occasions this year, may it be big or small, I made a sincere effort to be around and make my presence felt. I must say that I am quite pleased with the results of this decision. Not only did I rescue myself from the eternal guilt of being an absentee family member (father, sibling, son and all), I also succeeded in including myself with some of the moments and experiences my family will forever remember and treasure.
I must admit, at first, I thought I am doing my family a favor by being their driver, host, sponsor, supporter, additional help or headcount and what have you in all those occasions. Little did I know that it will be me who will enjoy each and every moment the most. Little did I realize that there is still as much growth and learning to find within my family as there is with my work and the life outside it.
I must admit, at first, I thought I am doing my family a favor by being their driver, host, sponsor, supporter, additional help or headcount and what have you in all those occasions. Little did I know that it will be me who will enjoy each and every moment the most. Little did I realize that there is still as much growth and learning to find within my family as there is with my work and the life outside it.
Jeio's 3rd birthday
An afternoon at Fun Ranch
Jianna's Christening
Jianna at the hospital 
UN Day at Jeio's School 
In an inflatable playpen at SM Baguio
At Strawberry Farm
At Club Manila East
Team "Love More" 
Team "Love More"
At Ans' Wedding
To Bora Peak
At Bora Peak
At Macau Tower
At HK Ngong Ping
At HK Kowloon Bay
Thanks to my entire family:) I am looking forward to spend more moments with you this coming year! Sunday, December 7, 2008
Update
I realized the first 6 months of my so-called new life is about to close. The ride was so surreal and so exciting I barely noticed the time pass by.
Here are some of the things I learned so far, in no order of importance:
1. Cebu Pac Go-lite is right. It's better to go w/o baggages.
2. You can still build new friendships even in your late 20s.
3. Work-life balance is for real, not just a concept.
4. Joining the rat race is a choice..
5. Don't be negligent in trusting. See those big companies crumble?
6. A house is not an investment.
7. Choose Mutual funds on the basis of risk you can take.
8. Happy wife. Happy me.
9. Let go of the not-so-good stuff in life to give space for better things.
10. Help comes in many form. Discern on what others/you really need.
11. Do not forget your mistakes in the past.
12. Routine ain't bad. Coffee on Sundays w/ wife & bud ain't bad at all.
13. You will not lose anything if you give compliments everyday.
14. Use simple words as much as possible.
15. Don't sell your credentials. Let your work do the talking.
16. Friends are friends forever until you decide otherwise.
17. Invest now. "It's not about timing but a matter of time."
18. Write down as many dreams as you can. See how it feels.
19. Keep track of your successes in life. Celebrate it.
20. If beer is bitter to your taste, it means you don't need to drink.
21. "One for the road" means 3 beers, at least.
22. There is joy in going to an out-of-the-country trip without itinerary.
23. Keep a picture of your kid/wife. It can keep you sane.
24. Love life and it will love you back.
25. Learn to be comfortable with your own skin as you age.
26. A fancy dinner date never goes unnoticed.
27. Give back.
28. Share and donate.
29. Learn. Share some learnings, if you must, but do not preach.
30. Remember your roles (father, brother) & be reminded of your worth.
I must admit I am enjoying my life now. I am looking forward to the next 6 months.
Here are some of the things I learned so far, in no order of importance:
1. Cebu Pac Go-lite is right. It's better to go w/o baggages.
2. You can still build new friendships even in your late 20s.
3. Work-life balance is for real, not just a concept.
4. Joining the rat race is a choice..
5. Don't be negligent in trusting. See those big companies crumble?
6. A house is not an investment.
7. Choose Mutual funds on the basis of risk you can take.
8. Happy wife. Happy me.
9. Let go of the not-so-good stuff in life to give space for better things.
10. Help comes in many form. Discern on what others/you really need.
11. Do not forget your mistakes in the past.
12. Routine ain't bad. Coffee on Sundays w/ wife & bud ain't bad at all.
13. You will not lose anything if you give compliments everyday.
14. Use simple words as much as possible.
15. Don't sell your credentials. Let your work do the talking.
16. Friends are friends forever until you decide otherwise.
17. Invest now. "It's not about timing but a matter of time."
18. Write down as many dreams as you can. See how it feels.
19. Keep track of your successes in life. Celebrate it.
20. If beer is bitter to your taste, it means you don't need to drink.
21. "One for the road" means 3 beers, at least.
22. There is joy in going to an out-of-the-country trip without itinerary.
23. Keep a picture of your kid/wife. It can keep you sane.
24. Love life and it will love you back.
25. Learn to be comfortable with your own skin as you age.
26. A fancy dinner date never goes unnoticed.
27. Give back.
28. Share and donate.
29. Learn. Share some learnings, if you must, but do not preach.
30. Remember your roles (father, brother) & be reminded of your worth.
I must admit I am enjoying my life now. I am looking forward to the next 6 months.
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Today
The WAIT is almost over. I just received two great options last week - an offer from the Telecom Industry and another from Financial Security. Coming from FMCG, I would naturally lean towards Telecom which behaves and acts like FMCG in many ways than one. It is also a familiar territory with many of my peers from previous companies crossing fence to this industry and thriving. Several marketing people from my industry have also proven their worth in taking top management posts in this one.
However, after eight years of marketing experience in FMCG, the other option is getting to be more attractive to me. Maybe it is because I feel I already "graduated" from my current industry, earning a great share of bruises and badges from it. Maybe it is also because I am looking for a life-changing course at this point in my life. And truth be told, after my sabbatical, it has become clear to me where I want spend my next 5-10 years of professional life; in a company where people stay, grow and flourish together with my family, and it is in this one where I think I will find it.
Today I will sign the contract.
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"I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less travelled by,
And that has made all the difference"
However, after eight years of marketing experience in FMCG, the other option is getting to be more attractive to me. Maybe it is because I feel I already "graduated" from my current industry, earning a great share of bruises and badges from it. Maybe it is also because I am looking for a life-changing course at this point in my life. And truth be told, after my sabbatical, it has become clear to me where I want spend my next 5-10 years of professional life; in a company where people stay, grow and flourish together with my family, and it is in this one where I think I will find it.
Today I will sign the contract.
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"I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less travelled by,
And that has made all the difference"
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Waiting
It is clear to me now where I want to go. I have already cleared my head to know what I really want. I also have a good idea on how to get there. But as to when I should go there, I guess I just have to be contented in waiting for now.
Then again, waiting is not exactly my closest friend. So while waiting for the right time to come, I will keep myself busy doing other little things I want to do. And hopefully, at the chosen time, I will feel glad I have waited.
Pat. Pat. You will have your time, mister.
Then again, waiting is not exactly my closest friend. So while waiting for the right time to come, I will keep myself busy doing other little things I want to do. And hopefully, at the chosen time, I will feel glad I have waited.
Pat. Pat. You will have your time, mister.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Surrender
I am determined to adopt a newly understood virtue in my life --- the often feared and misconstrued surrender. For an old dog like me, and a control freak at that, I must admit the process is quite slow and agonizing. Thanks to my wife and a recent experience, I was pushed against the wall to appreciate this virtue and the goodness it can bring to my life.
Letting go of the things I have been holding on for so long has been the biggest challenge for me so far. However, I come to realize that before I get to hold on to new and better things, I have to open my hands and let go of everything. It may be true I have been holding on to many a treasure but I must admit I have also been holding a lot of worms. These worms have been making me live the kind of life a lot lesser than me and my family deserve.
I do pray that once I have cleared my hands of everything and cleansed it, I will be able to pick up the things I truly treasure and still have room to pick new and better things. To bene vita.
Letting go of the things I have been holding on for so long has been the biggest challenge for me so far. However, I come to realize that before I get to hold on to new and better things, I have to open my hands and let go of everything. It may be true I have been holding on to many a treasure but I must admit I have also been holding a lot of worms. These worms have been making me live the kind of life a lot lesser than me and my family deserve.
I do pray that once I have cleared my hands of everything and cleansed it, I will be able to pick up the things I truly treasure and still have room to pick new and better things. To bene vita.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Name
I just stumbled into this link. The meaning of my name may be a mouthful but I tend agree with what is mostly written...
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What JOUB Means
You are fair, honest, and logical.
You are a natural leader, and people respect you.
You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries.
You are rational enough to see every part of a problem.
You are great at giving other people advice.
You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.
You are solid and dependable.
You are loyal, and people can count on you.
At times, you can be a bit too serious.
You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.
You are a very lucky person.
Things just always seem to go your way.
And because you're so lucky, you don't really have a lot of worries.
You just hope for the best in life.
You're sometimes a little guilty of being greedy.
Spread your luck around a little to people who need it.
You are full of energy.
You are spirited and boisterous.
You are bold and daring.
You are willing to do some pretty outrageous things.
Your high energy sometimes gets you in trouble.
You can have a pretty bad temper at times.
http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyournameshiddenmeaningquiz/outcome.php
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What JOUB Means
You are fair, honest, and logical.
You are a natural leader, and people respect you.
You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries.
You are rational enough to see every part of a problem.
You are great at giving other people advice.
You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.
You are solid and dependable.
You are loyal, and people can count on you.
At times, you can be a bit too serious.
You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.
You are a very lucky person.
Things just always seem to go your way.
And because you're so lucky, you don't really have a lot of worries.
You just hope for the best in life.
You're sometimes a little guilty of being greedy.
Spread your luck around a little to people who need it.
You are full of energy.
You are spirited and boisterous.
You are bold and daring.
You are willing to do some pretty outrageous things.
Your high energy sometimes gets you in trouble.
You can have a pretty bad temper at times.
http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyournameshiddenmeaningquiz/outcome.php
Monday, April 21, 2008
Better
My so called "new life" started more than a month ago. But reality kicks in and I am made to realize I do not have a new body to start with it. I am 28 and yet I already have worn out eyes, wearing special glasses for my high astigmatism. I have recurrent neck, shoulder and backpain that needs massaging every other week to lessen the tension. My knees, ankles and neck joints are clicking like I already have arthritis. I easily get exhausted. I am battling with the bulge with my tummy growing bigger every year. My memory is also failing me from time to time and it is harder to focus on what I am doing more than ever.
My battle plan: Consider lasik for my eyes. Stick to my diet and exercise program to fight body atrophy. Read. Read. Read. Brush up on my grammar, vocabulary and general knowledge. Join a retreat. Write things down to lessen forgetfulness.
I may not have a new body for this new life but let me start by making whatever I have better:) It will be such a waste if my own body will prevent me from living a better life.
My battle plan: Consider lasik for my eyes. Stick to my diet and exercise program to fight body atrophy. Read. Read. Read. Brush up on my grammar, vocabulary and general knowledge. Join a retreat. Write things down to lessen forgetfulness.
I may not have a new body for this new life but let me start by making whatever I have better:) It will be such a waste if my own body will prevent me from living a better life.
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